I’m Johnny, and my dream is to become a father. With a healthy embryo ready and the support of my loving family and friends, I’m searching for a kind-hearted surrogate to help bring this dream to life.
About meHi, my name is Johnny, I’m 32 and live in Vancouver, BC. Life here feels steady, I’ve built a career I love, a cozy home, and I keep busy with hobbies that bring me joy. Over the past year, I’ve been working with Olive Fertility on my journey to becoming a parent. Surrounded by my big Vietnamese family and all my close friends, I get to live a life full of love and support throughout all my endeavors and major life milestones. They say it takes a village… and this village has been beside me through this entire family planning process, and their support means everything. I am fortunate enough that my network has led me to have a known egg donor, and thanks to that person’s kindness I now have a healthy embryo ready for the next steps
That next step is where I’m hoping to meet someone special — a surrogate with an open heart who can help bring this dream to life. This journey has had its share of ups and downs, but it’s shown me how much becoming a father truly means to me. I’m excited, hopeful, and ready to move forward.
Olive Fertility Centre is experienced in helping family units who require a surrogate to have a child. A surrogate is also called a gestational carrier (GC). The GC carries and delivers a child for a couple or person, called the intended parents. The GC does not use her own eggs and is therefore not related to the child she is carrying.
In order to become a GC at Olive, the GC must:
Once a gestational carrier is identified, they are screened to be sure they are healthy and psychologically ready for the process. This is how the process usually goes:
Payment of a GC for surrogacy is prohibited in Canada, though her expenses can be reimbursed.
Since surrogates can’t be paid, they’re reimbursed for any expenses that come directly from the pregnancy. This can include:
For more information, see the Government of Canada’s guiance on surrogacy.
That depends on what feels right for you and the intended parent. Some surrogates like regular check-ins and to share the journey closely, while others prefer to keep things simple and more private. The important part is finding the right fit so everyone feels respected and supported.
The baby goes directly to the intended parent(s). Some surrogates and intended parents stay in touch as friends, while others keep a little more distance. It’s really about what both sides feel comfortable with.
I am the proud recipient of the Not My Tummy Grant created by Not My Tummy. In addition to receiving a $5,000 grant from the Fertility Friends Foundation, the grant recipient will receive an additional $5,000 grant to help cover surrogacy-specific clinic costs such as Health Canada donor screening, surrogate medical and psychological evaluations, mock cycle expenses, and embryo transfer costs. Recipients will also receive either a Not My Tummy Custom DIY Matching Roadmap (valued at $1,000) or the equivalent value toward another Not My Tummy service.
I’m a single-intended father on the path to build a family of my own. The process has been full of both challenges and moments of hope, but I’ve done my best to stay positive through it all.
Receiving support from Fertility Friends Foundation has made a meaningful difference for me. It has helped ease some of the financial and emotional stress along the way. I’m truly grateful to have their support as I move forward with this exciting next chapter.
If my story resonates with you and you’d like to learn more about becoming a surrogate or just have questions, I’d love to hear from you. This journey is built on trust and kindness and I’m grateful for anyone who reaches out.